Loneliness

We are all alone, together.

Words seldom come close to representing the experience of coming into ones own sovereign space.  

Loneliness and what it’s like with all the challenges of the human...

The need to be connected and be involved in a group, the old tribal connection that is programed. When you stop identifying with that, things can get lonely. We become individualized when we belong to a group.


The cosmic party starts when you go within and you begin to realize all the aspects and facets of who you are. It’s lonely at first, because that is the nothingness at the core, yet complete and full in itself. There is no need for the other when you come home to yourself. After that, it is mere experience with another individual. No more reflections, no more attracting another to learn about the self.

We are moving through many phases of this grand shift in consciousness. Something we have never done before. It’s going to take a lot of getting used to and navigating in a totally different way. It’s quite a time to be alive!

The soul voice, the knowing without knowing with the brain, speaks through the human.
How is it possible that when you are with someone else, you can feel lonelier?

It can become extremely painful for the body when engaging with the thoughts of the mind. However, when the true connection to the self occurs you no longer spend energy feeding thoughts and emotions. You notice them, and this is where the magic happens. The mind is lonely, and the human is always hungry. Through the understanding of this, the realization will bring you to a totally different state of being.

When working with another in a relationship it can be challenging to listen to that inner voice, because you move with each other’s kingdom within. But when you have that solid connection within it is easier to navigate and connect with all of who you are.

We are birthing ourselves out of our own making. This has never been done before. The loneliness can be unbearable at times. The need of the human to want nurturing at this point, the surrendering of the self to the self. I bow to myself, the human, the higher self, all of it. This is the space where we see we are the whole shebang! We are it. We are all that ever has been and ever will be!

Enlightenment just happens. There is no reaching or attaining anything. Literally, it’s emptying out and become full of the nothingness. I am THAT I am. The human cries out! Help me! This human is fragile and vulnerable, and we work with this. Everything is within the self. There is nothing else to do, but to experience and be.

Sexuality is such a personal experience. It’s selfish in its nature. Just the act alone calms the body down. It’s like food and water. The loneliness gnaws at you like a hunger from within. Companionship is nice for the human, but the limitations that we have created around the need for another has become imbalanced. It’s nice for awhile, but onto the next greatest experience. When individuals are compatible, it’s amazing what can happen between them, and it can go on for a long time. It’s not about not being in a relationship, it’s about expansion and experience without limitations, about coming into ones own sovereignty.

At the end of this lifetime you die alone. We are born alone and die alone. You do not take anyone with you, no-thing.

The human condition IS the imbalance. So, we work with this. We understand the masculine energy within, and the feminine energy within. We know how they work and move to create or destroy. The act of the human. When we bring awareness to the movements, everything changes.
We are the space holders between the words. The space in between.
Loneliness is a state of mind.

(transcribed from the following musing from July 2020: https://youtu.be/-u1vZ5O5KIY.
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